A Family Management System
to Reclaim Order and Clarity

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Families Feel Overwhelmed by the Chaos of Modern Life

If your family doesn’t have a system

And that leads to spouses drifting apart, teenagers drifting away, and the resulting grief that you are losing those you love most. It isn’t necessary. The Well-Ordered Family was founded to put an end to this. As a father of fifteen children (yes, 15) and CEO of multiple businesses, Conor Gallagher has created a management system by adapting business tools for family life. There is a reason business runs smoothly and family runs chaotically. Our unique system will put order and clarity back into your life.

Vision

Unity

Systems

Discernment

Relationships

Metrics

Vision

Vision

Here lies the primary step of connecting every member within the organization towards a common strategy. It’s about establishing a collective understanding where everyone is wholeheartedly on board with the shared destination and the detailed roadmap for achieving it.

Metrics

What gets measured, gets managed. Remarkable family successes come with a keen focus on crucial data points. We’ll guide you in identifying and monitoring the specific metrics your family should track weekly, monthly, even yearly, ensuring a well-balanced and thriving household.

Relationships

A family with a clear vision, unity, effective system management, and monitored key metrics undoubtedly experiences improved relationships. However, relationships are complex due to differing temperaments and personalities. Embracing the corporate approach of leveraging individual strengths is crucial for family relationships.

Unity

It’s often stated that 1 percent of success stems from vision, while a significant 99 percent arises from alignment with that vision. We refer to this synergy as unity. In this world, few forces are as potent as a united family.

Systems

Family life, like everything, follows systems— whether smooth or not. The secret to family strength? Organize your family’s ways, just like a business. Identify key steps, get everyone on board, and create a consistent, scalable family harmony.

Discernment

In every family, a multitude of decisions arises. Recognizing the difference between decision-making and problem-solving is essential. Decision-making involves selecting among options, while problem-solving addresses the core of an issue. This distinction impacts family dynamics, where skillful navigation promotes harmony.

Learn and Implement a 6-Part System to Reclaim Order and Clarity for Your Family

Part 1

Clarify Your Family Vision

Tools included

  • The Family Master Plan™
  • Eight break-out tools to help you craft your Family Master Plan

Learn how to: 

  • Craft a Vision+ Statement
  • Perform a SWOT Analysis 
  • Discover your Core Virtues 
  • Choose a Family Motto, Family Patron, and a Family Beatitude 
  • Envision a 10-Year Portrait 
  • Craft 3-Year Household Goals

Part 2

Cultivate Unity

Tools included

  • The Family Meeting Cadence™
  • Sample agendas for each family meeting

Learn how to lead your: 

  • Weekly Family Huddle
  • Weekly Marriage Check-In
  • Quarterly Family Meeting
  • Annual Family Council 

Part 3

Enhance Your Systems

Tools included:

  • The Family STRREP Test™
  • The KFP Finalizer™
  • The Digital Policy Builder™

Learn about the external forces on your family, such as: 

  • Social factors
  • Technological factors
  • Religious factors
  • Recreational factors
  • Educational factors
  • Professional factors

Part 4

Track Your Metrics

Tools included:

  • The Family Habit Tracker™
  • The Family Scorecard Generator™
  • The Family Scorecard™

Learn how to:

  • Simplify the way you track the most
    important activity in your family life
  • Craft your measures of success so that
    everyone plays with the same
    scorecard
  • Identify a non-threatening, not confrontational way of “keeping score”

Part 5

Deepen Your Relationships

Tools included:

  • The Conflict Analyzer™
  • The Relationship Maximizer™

Learn how to understand:

  • Temperament dynamics in your family 
  • Your family’s personality assessment tests
  • Human nature

Part 6

Simplify Discernment

Tools included:

  • The Family Focus Box™
  • The Family CBA™
  • The Family Decision Matrix™
  • The Five Whys
  • The 80/20 Family Optimizer™

Learn how to:

  • Designate issues as urgent versus important
  • Prioritize your to-do list with crystal clarity
  • Let . . . things . . .go! 
  • Prayerfully and analytically discern life’s biggest decisions